Archive for August, 2009

SC lake culture 2

August 11, 2009

A storm rolled across the lake and into our neighborhood late this afternoon. It was nice to watch the rain roll across the pond in sheets, out back. A little reddish-orange toad got stranded on our front porch and didn’t quite know where to go, in order not to drown.

This morning while doing my 4 laps around the pond, a large red-tailed hawk swooped past me. As he passed just beside me, he let out his high pitched call. I think it was just for me.  🙂    This pond does not have geese or ducks. The life in this pond is large fish and numerous frogs, with toads up in the grass. Mockingbirds occupy the trees, as well as some large hawks at times. People are allowed to fish, but put the fish back in. Some people drive around in the little golf carts and throw DOG FOOD to the fish, feeding them! Al has seen a beaver and a muskrat also.

“Strive then, O My brother, to apprehend this matter, that the veils may be lifted from the face of thy heart and that thou mayest be reckoned among them whom God hath graced with such penetrating vision as to behold the most subtle realities of His dominion, to fathom the mysteries of His kingdom, to perceive the signs of His transcendent Essence in this mortal world, and to attain a station wherein one seeth no distinction amongst His creatures and findeth no flaw in the creation of the heavens and the earth.”

 (Baha’u’llah, Gems of Divine Mysteries, p. 11)

money / Hidden Words of Baha’u’llah, no.8

August 10, 2009

For the 1st time in a long time, I am really happy and hopeful about money. My husband has income. We switched banks and started over with a local bank. They know me already there and say hi when I walk in. They do not have a recorded automatic banking service, where if you DO get a “real” human being, you are talking to someone across the world or at least in California. The lady who opened my account for me said, “If you have any problem with your account, you do not call an 800#. You come and see ME.” I was so relieved!! Local service has disappeared with modern times, and it is exactly what we need and want. Recognition for ourselves as human beings, seeing and talking to people who know us personally! Can you imagine?

I am very, very happy in this house and neighborhood. Life is a blessing. There are kids and youth everywhere and we are making contact, gradually. Al walks the neighborhood 3X/day. I refuse to walk at midday. Today it was 103 degrees when I drove past the Methodist church temp. sign!

 

and now a Hidden Word to sleep by……….

O SON OF SPIRIT!
There is no peace for thee save by renouncing thyself and turning unto Me; for it behooveth thee to glory in My name, not in thine own; to put thy trust in Me and not in thyself, since I desire to be loved alone and above all that is.

 (Baha’u’llah, The Arabic Hidden Words, no.8)

South Carolina lake culture

August 9, 2009

stoneyI can’t really believe where I live now. It is quite the privileged life.

In South Carolina by the lake, people have garages but never park their cars in them. I never thought about it before, but all my life in the north, it is assumed you should really clear the clutter out of your garage, so you can park your CAR in it, in Winter. Why? It is quite the advantage to not have to clear the ice and snow off your windshield before you leave. Also, the car doesn’t get quite as cold as it does when sitting outside, so there is less chance your engine will FREEZE, or at the very least, your car door locks freeze, necessitating getting out the old reliable can of WD-40, something you always have on hand (in your garage or trunk of the car), and spraying the car door locks with it to unfreeze them. Most people also carry extra blankets in their trunk and perhaps a candy bar or two, just in case you get stranded on a wintry highway sometime.

In South Carolina (by the lake), houses do not have basements, due to swampy land and flooding. People use their garages for storage. There is no need to ever park the car in the garage. They also may set up a BAR in their garage and open the garage door to the neighbors in the evenings, playing music. The funniest thing about SC culture by the lake is that people use their cars when they are leaving the neighborhood. WITHIN the neighborhood, they troll around in their golf carts. They seem to do this for an evening activity, sometimes with their dogs or their kids taking a ride. They then drive right up to their neighbors open garage bar, sit down and shoot the breeze. I find it hilarious.

Our neighborhood is a community within itself. People are out all hours of the night up to about midnight. It seems to be a very safe and friendly place.

Hidden Words of Baha’u’llah, no.7

August 7, 2009

lotus6Tonight I am really tired. I drove 12 hrs yesterday. There has been a lot of stress regarding money over the last month. Tonight, I could not go for a walk w/ my hubby around the pond. I have to listen to my body and know when it is telling me, “Too much, girl, take it easy and slow down.” Right now at 10:15pm, I feel the sore throat coming on, which is what my body does when it is overloaded. So I have to listen.

Here is “Hidden Words of Baha’u’llah” no.7, to go to sleep to . . .

O SON OF MAN!
If thou lovest Me, turn away from thyself; and if thou seekest My pleasure, regard not thine own; that thou mayest die in Me and I may eternally live in thee.

 (Baha’u’llah, The Arabic Hidden Words)

accomplishments of Indiana trip

August 7, 2009

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Family history: Found and photographed my parents, grandparents Plantenga, great-grandparents Brink and Plantenga, grandparents Black, gravesites. The Brinks and older Plantengas I had to find.

2) Spent time w/ Raven and Caspian. Though I lost my temper at Caspian twice, which I am disappointed in myself for, it was a good visit. Also spent time w/ Jasmine, even without the boys, which was unusual.

3) Got the boys to summer BAHA’I camp. It was a joy. Raven enjoyed his age group, Caspian enjoyed his classes, they both enjoyed swimming. They enjoyed it so much, they stayed overnight 2 nights w/ Julie & Jeff & kids. Bless them for that. Caspian showed a marked improvement in maturity over last year. There were 2 declarations of faith at camp as well.

4) Unpacked nearly ALL of Jasmine’s boxes. Wish I had a before and after picture of her living room. HA! I think I put some 20-25 boxes out for the trash.

Indiana

August 6, 2009

I have been in Indiana for a week. It feels like I should stay another week and it is very hard to leave. Jasmine’s house is still a mess, though boxes are unpacked. The computer modem is blinking that all is working, but it is not working. We think we are missing a splitter, so the phone cord going into the wall is not protected, and won’t allow the Internet to work. It has all been very difficult working in my daughter’s house, with her stuff, not knowing what is important or not important, deciding what to do with what.

It turns out we set up the computer miles and miles from the nearest phone wall jack. I saw the cable outlet and thought that’s why she wanted it set up in that corner. She knew she had a long phone line cord and figured it didn’t matter. There is no phone jack in the entire living room, so it has to run to the kitchen, if she wants it downstairs.

Nothing is settled, yet I need to start out on a 10-hr drive and let it go. I managed to take pics of the gravesites in Lafayette, in 2 cemeteries, finding my great-granparents’ graves & I didn’t know where they were. That is about all I accomplished on “family history” this trip. I’m trying to get myself in gear and hit the road. It’s going to be a later trip than the one that brought me here. I also have a headache and have not slept enough. I smell Starbucks….

Indiana Baha’i summer camp

August 6, 2009

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Caspian, Julian, a friend, Jonah, Raven

Indiana Baha’i Summer camp is all about the kids. 4 days of fun and learning in a spiritual atmosphere with your Baha’i family. Parents & grandparents attend with kids, so you have it all together.