canopy of stars

March 14, 2012

After teaching a night class at a neighboring university this semester, my husband and I drive back from Greenwood all the way to Chapin. This takes about an hour & 20. One of the perks is being outside at night, in a rural state, and looking out the car window. I can look because usually, my husband is driving. He is my companion and he accompanies me every week on this venture, usually driving to allow me to sleep or sometimes to catch up on reading something on the way TO that class. I appreciate his company. On the way back home after the class is over, I look out the window, to a canopy of stars. This canopy is unlike anything you’ve ever seen in a city. It is unlike anything you’ve ever seen living CLOSE to a city. This is a myriad layer upon layer of glittering light.

I am fascinated with stars and the sky, and watch them all the time. I do not feel settled until I have found the Big Dipper to get my orientation to reality. There are 3 little stars that are always in a row, together, pointing out in the direction of northwest. On the road back from Greenwood, I find that these 3 stars in a row are SURROUNDED by layers and layers of sparkling diamonds! From my house in our neighborhood, where we have irritating bright security lamps placed by the Neighborhood Association, I cannot see these diamonds. The Neighborhood Association says the blaring beacons are for our “safety”. In reality, we know they are placed so the people on that committee can see through their secret cameras 24/7, because they have nothing better to do than to spy. After all, the beacons are not in their side or backyard — they’re in mine.

In any case, these are the bounties of living in a rural state: Being aware of the canopy of stars, and layer upon layer of glittering diamonds, all available free in an enlightening and entertaining show. And we are a part of it. Looking out at the canopy, you realize just how vast is the universe, and how tiny is your own little star, your own little place within it.

Confederate vs Union

February 29, 2012

I have realized over four years time of living in South Carolina, how all the hype about the Civil war and the ever-present Confederate flag has actually reinforced my pride in being from “the Union side”. It’s infectious, this accentuation of this time in our past. It is inescapable. It is part of the culture of southern life, especially in South Carolina. One has to know one’s roots. Where do y’all live? Where y’all from? How long you been here? (Translation: did your ancestors fight alongside mine? are you “one of us”?) I say this somewhat light-heartedly. There is a recognition that we are now in a different time period. Still, family names are recognized. It is important in people’s minds. Family names and how long yours have lived in the area are absolutely blazed into your forehead, like a flashing neon sign. My maiden name of AGNEW is actually present here. One of the original Agnew brothers went south, to South Carolina. The others stayed in Pennsylvania and gradually moved to the Midwest, Ohio, Indiana. But most people down here don’t know my maiden name.

I love the rural-ness of this state, and would greatly miss it if we left. I love the forest, the palms and the pines. It is now a part of me and I would hate to go back to Winter and open plains, corn and soybeans, and vast open sky. Even to move to North Carolina is moving away from the ruralness and pines of South Carolina. Each place is its own place.

And I wonder, what is it like to be FROM such a place, where “all my relation” are all around you at all times? It must be a wonderful feeling, a feeling of belonging, a feeling of acceptance. Something more like I feel when we are “back home in Indiana” near the Wabash, and I see my grandparents as shadows swimming in it and canoeing nearly a century ago, in its waters. . . Something like that. But there is no emphasis on the civil war, like there is down here.

Living down here, that part of me COMES OUT, my great- grandfather’s Union army registration card means all the WORLD to me. And I am SO PROUD. I don’t have to worry about what to do about the Confederate flag. Frankly, we saw it for what it is a long time ago. And we took it down. No Union army flag flies at our statehouse. Only the flag OF THE UNION. The flag of our country, the United States of America. That’s what the fight was all about. And my great grandpa fought on the side that made it so.

Agnew family history frustration

January 27, 2012

Here is my Agnew family history research for the night, which led to nowhere.

James Agnew’s father is James Agnew. The elder James is married to Mary. It is pointless to search for records on a “James & Mary” Agnew as there are about 10M of them. Elder James lists his birth place as Ohio, his parents’ as PA. Mary is born in PA. Searched for a marriage record for them in PA or OH to no avail.

James & Mary can be traced through the 1880 census still in Hamilton County, OH. They have a number of kids. Mary cannot be our James’ mother, unless she had him at 14. So I’d like to find any sort of records on the elder James, to lead to his first WIFE which would probably be our James’ mother? An elderly Samuel Agnew is living w/ them in 1850. James is 38, Mary is 22 and our James is 8 yrs. old. The elderly Samuel is 70-something…….. he came from PA also. There is a famous Samuel Agnew born in 1778 which would be a match…….. but he supposedly died in 1849. He DID have a son named JAMES who everyone lists as dying in 1870, so that is not OUR ELDERLY JAMES, because he is still with Mary in the 1880 census.  🙂 

 

James & Mary have many other children, mostly girls, though Alfred is born in 1849. Then there is a Mary E., Lizzie, Sallie, & an adopted daughter Hellen.

Searched findagrave for cemetary markers for any of them, to no avail. The 1890 census was mostly destroyed in a fire. Anccestry has put together city directory records, etc., to patch some of it. Found a widow Mary Agnew in Hamilton County, Ohio, in 1901. She is living w/ a David Agnew & “Annie”. I do not see that James & Mary ever had a son David. (It could be another relative she is living with.)

Published our Agnew family story in an international Agnew newsletter this month, was hoping someone somewhere might respond with clues. Nothing yet.

Do not know Mary’s maiden name.

poem, Dr. Martin Luther King holiday

January 16, 2012

Dr. Martin Luther King holiday

You got no mail today.

Did you notice? Do you know why?

Because this is a National Holiday,

a day set aside

to honor someone

who made a difference.

He was not some rabble-rouser

Tryin’ to stir up folks for no good reason,

He was a preacher of the Word of God,

which is where he found his strength to go on,

Because when God gets behind you,

It doesn’t matter who is in front of you

Calling you names,

Spreading hate like wildfire,

Bombing your homes

threatening your family,

Because that is what he faced,

Not in ancient times –

though it may feel that way

If you are 21,

But 50 years ago,

in my childhood,

In the days of MY lifetime.

He was a gifted speaker,

who could inspire crowds

And uplift hearts,

like no one you’ve ever heard,

He inspired collective ACTION

through non-violent means,

inspired those who had no hope left

inspired politicians to change their laws

to DO SOME WALKING to go along with their TALKING

about equal opportunity.

He wrote a letter from the Birmingham jail,

to his fellow ministers, and asked,

Was this not America – home of the brave, land of the FREE?

What would it take to bring about EQUALITY?

But 50 years later,

A man looks at me,

In a business in the rural south,

and asks me, “What was the attraction?”

When I spoke of the service today,

when I joked about spending 3 ½ hours in CHURCH,

listening to speakers and choirs sing,

celebrating this man.

“What was the attraction?”

And I don’t know what to say, except,

“This is a NATIONAL HOLIDAY!”

This was a man courageous enough

to stand up for justice

In the face of death,

To face hatred

With never ending love,

To face bombings of churches and his home,

With a dream of a better America,

And I want to say, “Where were you?”

Because there were hundreds in that church today,

and where ARE we today – exactly?

Because today was a NATIONAL holiday,

And we have much work left to do,

because … “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that.

Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.

Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence . . . in a descending spiral of destruction…

The chain reaction of evil . . . must be broken, or we will shall plunge into the dark abyss of annihilation…” 1

 

and “When I speak of love I am not speaking of some sentimental and weak response . . . I am speaking of that force which all of the great religions have seen as the supreme unifying principle of life . . .” 2

and “Now is the time to make real the promise of democracy.” 3

 

1,2,3  quotes of Dr. Martin Luther King

poem, Day before the first day of the semester

January 9, 2012

Day Before the First Day of the Semester

Beginnings.

The day before the first day of the semester,

All is possibility.

There are no late assignments,

No one has failed a test,

Or made an excuse for missing class.

Your relationship with each and every student

Is solid.

All there is, is the role play, of student vs. professor.

The goal for today is to copy the syllabus,

The contract of promises to be kept.

There are no questions as to when the assignment is due,

Whether or not you provide a review,

Or take papers via e-mail.

You have a list with names on it,

Everyone’s grade is equally resplendent.

Their main concern for tomorrow

Is to find the right room,

And to take a seat — next to someone they know.

15 weeks of struggle and promise lie pristine before them,

No one knows how to tell their story,

Or how it will come to an end,

Today is all possibility,

Lift your pencil, now, begin!

Plantinga’s in Chicago

January 3, 2012
Update: Been researching the Dutch today. I really feel for them, because they came to America, & they were poor. I found out some things about the grandparents of my grandparents.
Gerrit & Mathilda Plantinga were born in Friesland, Netherlands in the mid-1840s. In fact, Mathilda lists her town as Hallum (so we could even visit the town they were from). They were married in Holland in 1867. There is supposedly a marriage record in Dutch, but the website is also in Dutch so I could not get the record at this point.
They immigrated Oct. 18, 1890, coming into New York and having a destination of “Kensington”. Kensington is an area still shown on the map, just west of Hwy 94 in south Chicago. They had children with them:
Antje, Boutje, Loenwtje, and Renske.
Their children’s names were incorrectly transcribed as: Antie, Bouwtie, Leeunts and Renoke.
Gerrit & Mathilda settled in the big city. They lived INSIDE Chicago. (I think of all those pictures of slum quarters of immigrants with laundry out their windows and the kids running around kicking a ball in the streets of Chicago.) They also had 2 boys: WOPKO (who became William and my grandpa’s father), and GERRIT JR. (who is buried also in Chicago).
They lived in Dutch areas of Chicago. Lots of Dutch ended up in Chicago. WOPKO eventually married Katherine (Katie) and they came down to the Lafayette area.
In 1900, Gerrit Sr. was working as a “blacksmith helper” and they lived at: 233 103rd St., IN Chicago.
In 1910, Gerrit was in his mid-60s and worked as a “laborer in a car shop”. What this tells me is, they never had any money.
Gerrit dies in 1919. Mathilda is living with a daughter in 1920. The daughter’s husband worked as a “salesman of wholesale produce”. In other words, they grew vegetables somehow & managed to sell them. They didn’t have any money either.
Mathilda, it appears, never spoke any English. She was listed as speaking Dutch only in the census of 1900. She, as many Dutch women seem to manage to do, lived to be 90 years old, and died in 1935. Their death certificates put both Gerrit Sr. and Mathilda in Mt. Greenwood cemetary, Cook County, Chicago. Someone took their headstone photo for me. This is the same thing I do down here for others, wander cemetaries & take photos for family history. 
The Dutch names are amazing, and are also butchered terribly when transcribed. Mathilda was called “Tilke” for short, and in ACTUAL Dutch, her marriage name was: Tjipkje………..
Their children, as I have them all, were:
Antje (becomes “Annie”)
Bootje
Liewkje (becomes “Lucia,” then “Lucy”)
Loeuwtje (I think becomes “Rosie”)
Wopko (William)
Gerrit Jr.
and possible Rinske (This may be the one they call “Rosie” but I’m not sure if they are the same person.)
Wopko is the father of George, my grandpa. George hated his dad. He evidently was a mean person. George was born before Wopko and Katherine had been married 9 months. However, I’ve seen his picture and he looks like the spitting image of George, so I believe he is the father. Then they had 10 more kids.

the Reids in southern Indiana

January 2, 2012
If I were to “go home” for me, personally, I would live in southern Indiana. The patriarch James Agnew settled there after the Civil War (coming there from Ohio) & lots of Agnew relatives still all live there in New Albany. We are some of the very few who left. My grandma Mary Reid who married John Wesley Agnew (son of James) grew up in Bedford. Her family settled there, coming up from Kentucky. Today I was researching her family some more.
 
Mary’s parents were Charles Reid and Cora Belle Owens.
 
Charles’ parents were Alexander J. Reid (b.1929) and Nancy Jane (Smith) (b.1834). Both Alexander and Nancy came to southern Indiana from Kentucky. They seem to have been married in 1850. Nancy reports this in one census, but I cannot find any official marriage record, so far. Nancy reports she got married in 1850, at age 16.
 
They had 9 children. Charles, my great-grandfather, was # 6. He was born in 1865. His siblings were:
Martha b.1854
Thomas Hugh b.1857
Sarah b.1859
Mary L. b.1862
John Marshall b.1863 and lived as an adult in Indianapolis
Charles b.1865 (my great-grandfather)
Ida B., b.1867, married Frank Turner
Nelly G., also called “Emma” b.1870
and the baby, George W., b.1872.
*There seems to be another son, John, who is listed as a brother surviving Charles in 1917, but I do not find him in any census record so far.
 
In 1900, the mother, Nancy Jane, was living only with son Thomas Hugh, but still listed herself as married. Where was Alexander, her husband?? I do not know. Alexander lived to 1909.
This son, Thomas, was 43 and not married in 1900.
 
Nancy lived to 1912. I still need to find her in 1910 (where she was living & w/ who).
Nancy and Alexander are buried together, in Bedford. I have enclosed their marker. Green Hill cemetary.
 
Charles Reid, their son & my great-grandfather, dies of diabetes at age (52), in 1917. At that time, he was a stone mason in Bloomington. He is buried also in Bedford.

new year’s eve post 2011

December 31, 2011

New Year’s eve 2011. The eve of a new year in my life. What will it bring?

First of all, wordpress thinks it is bringing snow, as it has snow coming down in the background as I write this. That CERTAINLY is not true. Just took a mile or so walk, w/ a hooded sweatshirt on, unzipped, and almost had to remove it. The sun was out most of the day, an absolutely lovely day.

Hopefully this new year will first of all bring my husband a job. Unemployed for 7 mos. now and no unemployment check. He is owed an unemployment check but will never get it. This was explained in a past post.

My life has become very simple. We have what we have for money, & that’s it. The only thing we have to decide is, how to juggle the bills to not get sued or attacked, and keep the lights, water and Internet on. The TV is gone– have lived w/o it now for a few months. Our phones have to stay on. Even those I would get rid of, but the companies have you in some assenine contract for 2 years, and you CAN’T turn them off!! You can turn off 1 line for 3 mos., & then they turn it back on.

As we go through this hard time again, I am amazed how cruel a society we live in. Absolutely cruel. People want to blame everyone else at the bottom besides those at the top making these decisions to keep the rest of us groveling for a decent place to live, a car to drive to our jobs in, and enough food to eat. It is just ridiculous.

The hardest thing for me, is to just wait. Wait and wait some more. Wait past the time you thought you couldn’t wait any longer. You have no choice, really, there is nothing else to do except possibly make a huge change and move back to the land of industry, where my husband COULD at least have a JOB. But we have friends here, we love our community, & we promised the Fedl govt. we’d live in this house at least another year, or we owe the President his kick back money. Don’t want to be in that situation. We can’t afford it.

So my life is simple. I don’t even consider Starbucks anymore, it’s 1/2 hour away. Have grown used to making my own coffee every single day. We eat simply. We have eggs, toast, cereal, or oatmeal every morning, a salad for lunch, and one actual meal per day. The night meal includes meat, usually potatoes and onions, and some sort of vegetable. Nothing elaborate. Same every day. We find ourselves buying occasional candy bars or cokes, because of the craving for sweets, and just something a little bit FUN. OH BOY! We don’t go out to movies, don’t go out to eat, don’t even go into town really because we have to save the gas money. Certainly did not make it home to Indiana this holiday season!

Take a 3-mi walk as often as possible, watch a few tv shows days after they’re on real tv, on our computer, a few movies, play games on computer, read, go see friends, for “entertainment”. It’s an exciting life.

This break for me has been an organization break. I went thru stuff in our garage once again, made a list of everything we own for will purposes, organized my children’s class stuff again for whenever it will be used, read one children’s book I’d never read before. In this next week, I hope to finish major work on a journal article for publication; get my syllabi done; go in to another school where I’m teaching a class part-time for extra money this Spring; work on family history a little; read my text books;

and be thankful. Thankful for my kids, my 4 grandkids and 1 new one on the way. Thankful for my husband & friend & our time together. Thankful for faith which brings hope. Hope is about the most important thing I could wish for everyone this new year. There is always hope.

We have a small pork roast in the crockpot which I bought on sale tonight, and which will be ready late this evening while we watch movies together…. that’s nice and cozy.

countries of origin

December 20, 2011

MY countries of origin so far:

Netherlands — ALL — on my mom’s side.

Father’s side:

Scotland

Ireland

Wales

Germany

England

Switzerland

MY HUSBAND’S SIDE:

his mother’s side: GERMANY, ALL

his father’s side:
Germany

England

Ireland

Netherlands

 

history of family history names

December 18, 2011
Through the mothers, hundreds of other last names come up who we are related to. These are what we have so far. Dates listed are usually the BIRTH date of the last person back & where they originated or lived.
AGNEW LINE:
AGNEWS — still working on our line. Not proven yet past my great-grandfather James Agnew’s father James in OHIO. I have an article to be posted in the Agnew international newsletter in Jan. 2012. There is an older “Samuel Agnew” listed in Ohio 1850 census with my great-grandpa James as a little boy, & his father James. This Samuel has not yet been traced. (If he is a FAMOUS Samuel Agnew born the same year, then we are traced back to Scotland. If not, I don’t know who the hell we are yet.) But no doubt we go back to SCOTLAND and prior to that, IRELAND, as there were 3 MAIN AGNEW brothers who originally came to the states! We are all descended from those 3 Agnew brothers pretty much. One came to South Carolina & there are Agnews down here from his line. Others were in PA & from there evidently migrated west.
 
Reid — Kentucky
Owens — WALES
Owen — immigrated from ______ to Virginia 1600s
 
Lemonds / Lemond — North Carolina
Moore — North Carolina, 1752
Henderson — Virginia 1700
Martin — IRELAND, 1698
Hunter — IRELAND, 1717
Henry — Virginia, 1730
Edwards —
Bybee — Indiana 1836. This is the wife of James Agnew’s family. GO FIGURE there is not much info. on them either.
Easum — Indiana (wife of Bybee above, not much info.)
Smith — GERMANY 1720
Schmidt — (became “SMITH” above)
Tatum — ENGLAND
Dixon and Pearson — Maine 1600s
Mitchell — Virginia, 1686
Ford — Tennessee, 1794
Ribley & Ribelin — GERMANY 1730
Bruner — SWITZERLAND 1678
Sturm — GERMANY
Gah — GERMANY 
 
My mom’s side: ALL DUTCH, all immigrants from HOLLAND “the Netherlands”, my grandparents from FRIESLAND area, I think the SW part.
Plantenga — Immigrated 1882
Brink (Ingbringhof) – Immigrated when?
VanShapen
Hanstra
Wobbes van Vliet
Eelkes
Hylkema
Bouma
Wouters
Boonstra
Braaksma
Krijnes
Jans
Monsma
Klazes
Gerkes
 
 
BLACK:
Black — “John Hugh Black”, Virginia, 1800 —
Orndorf — GERMANY 1716
Luhl — GERMANY 1715
Richardson — Ohio 1834
Elam — Virginia 1780
Young — 1799 -?
Eanes — Illinois 1783
Sharp — ENGLAND 1670
Eastlack — ENGLAND 1635
Coffee — North Carolina 1786
Haines — New Jersey 1730
Allen — New Jersey 1699
Morgan — Philadelphia 1727
Haniford — IRELAND 1827
Murrell — Virginia 1737
Wagoner — Ohio 1814 
Martin — Maryland 1746
Jacobs — Ohio 1827
Welch — ?
Vansandt — HOLLAND, NETHERLANDS 1644
Cox — ?
Courson — New York Staaten Island, 1687
VanOosten — NETHERLAND 1647
 
 
GRAUL: ALL GERMAN
Graul — Johann Graul immigrated 1850. (Can be spelled GROL in census.)
Ohlendorf
Stahl
Jokel
Diemert
Frank
Schneider
Barber
Ruechert
Bopp