Archive for the ‘South Carolina’ Category

The changing seasons in SC

September 13, 2009

I was trying to think of something to write about, & decided to add updates to the changing seasons in South Carolina. 🙂  Quite a difference from that in Indiana.

So now it is Fall. It feels different than when it did a month ago, but I wonder if most of that different feeling is tied up in our change in schedules. Children now walk to school each weekday morning and are not around during the day, in the neighborhood. They are busier. They don’t hang out as much in the picnic table area near our house.

There are not as many people in the neighborhood pool, though it is still open! We haven’t been swimming ourselves for probably 2 weeks. The evenings are cooler, getting down into the 60s. There isn’t that hot & humid feeling in the air, in the evenings, anymore.

I am busier as well. Later today I need to finish grading some assignments and tweek a power point for this week. This weekend I slept in luxuriously, but that is no longer an option during the week.

There is no sense of the trees changing yet. We do see that here, but it will occur much later. Daytime temps. still reach 90 but go no higher than that, if they do get there. More likely in the 80s. SC and IN temps. are actually very similar right now.

and that’s early, early Fall in SC, mid-September.

* Added note: We have learned that our pond was created by damming Bear Creek, hence the name of our neighborhood “. . .  at Bear Creek”. The reason we don’t have mosquitos is they load minnows which feed on mosquitos, into the pond, when needed. As the minnows grow too large and eat other things, they add more minnows. We also have dragonflies. All very natural to curb the mosquito population –nice! I guess the frog population then suffered and dwindled, since tadpoles also eat mosquitos & there weren’t enough for them. So the frog singing population has diminished drastically. There are many turtles, & they also added carp to eat the grass & clean the pond. The carp are huge. There are some large catfish, but all fish caught are supp. to be thrown back into the pond. They are talking about adding some sort of oxygen-spraying fountain, underneath, to clean the water more, in the future.

Have wheels, will travel in the neighborhood.

August 17, 2009

There are lots and lots of kids on bicycles in this neighborhood. I can remember those days, when a bike was your ticket to freedom, your vehicle for travel. Under age 14, it is very cool to have a cool bike and be able to ride “no hands”. At around 13, that isn’t so cool anymore, but you still can’t drive, so you still ride a bike.

There are small groups of boys who ride bikes on the streets of the neighborhood. Ages 8 to about 12. They ride around on the trails, stop at the pond and try to fish, go to someone else’s house, ride to a recreation area park, and just travel the area. It seems like a step back in time, to live here. I cannot imagine being a child and growing up here, with no fear, able to hang out with your buddies by the pond and just talk at the picnic tables, have friends all around you, go swimming at the community neighborhood pool, maybe catch a few frogs or toads, a turtle, or try to fish with a little string and bait. What a relaxed atmosphere.

I don’t see many girls hanging out, and I don’t see teenagers. I don’t know where the teenagers go in Chapin, to hang out. One young group of girls the other day, had made bracelets and were walking around the neighborhood, giving them away. Very small children are usually with their parents. Oftentimes a parent will be jogging beside a child in a motorized car or bike. Another form of “wheels” is motorized scooters. They are really funny to me, because we didn’t have those when I was a kid.

It just seems to be an amazingly safe and relaxed place for kids to grow up.

You wonder, though, whether kids growing up here will have a sense of the suffering in the world. Like some of my college students, it never touched them so they don’t really have a concept of world poverty, can’t really get their heads wrapped around the idea. We talk about how so many billion people live on what would  equal to $1.00 a day in the US. But it’s hard to believe something exists when you feel the world is basically open and fair, and safe. You tend to think all people can have those things.

‘Abdu’l-Baha once said, accustom children to hardship. Most parents cannot get that job done, in a conscious way. For us, it happened, but just due to accident and circumstance. Hard times we went through with our kids taught them the meaning of scrimping and poverty, like no textbook ever could. They know the feeling of being the kids on “free lunch” and being treated differently in school because they didn’t have the latest designer clothes, shoes, make-up or bookbag. They lived in hardship. For quite a few years. And I think they are better for it. It was hard on them, but when they look poverty in the eye, when they see someone else suffering, they may tend NOT to blame the individual. They may rather see “there, but for the grace of God, goes I.” They have LIVED it, they KNOW.  Many of our friends’ kids have no concept of that, no understanding. For us, it just happened.

“While the children are yet in their infancy feed them from the breast of heavenly grace, foster them in the cradle of all excellence, rear them in the embrace of bounty. Give them the advantage of every useful kind of knowledge. Let them share in every new and rare and wondrous craft and art. Bring them up to work and strive, and accustom them to hardship. Teach them to dedicate their lives to matters of great import, and inspire them to undertake studies that will benefit mankind.”

 (Abdu’l-Baha, Selections from the Writings of Abdu’l-Baha, p. 129)

South Carolina lake culture

August 9, 2009

stoneyI can’t really believe where I live now. It is quite the privileged life.

In South Carolina by the lake, people have garages but never park their cars in them. I never thought about it before, but all my life in the north, it is assumed you should really clear the clutter out of your garage, so you can park your CAR in it, in Winter. Why? It is quite the advantage to not have to clear the ice and snow off your windshield before you leave. Also, the car doesn’t get quite as cold as it does when sitting outside, so there is less chance your engine will FREEZE, or at the very least, your car door locks freeze, necessitating getting out the old reliable can of WD-40, something you always have on hand (in your garage or trunk of the car), and spraying the car door locks with it to unfreeze them. Most people also carry extra blankets in their trunk and perhaps a candy bar or two, just in case you get stranded on a wintry highway sometime.

In South Carolina (by the lake), houses do not have basements, due to swampy land and flooding. People use their garages for storage. There is no need to ever park the car in the garage. They also may set up a BAR in their garage and open the garage door to the neighbors in the evenings, playing music. The funniest thing about SC culture by the lake is that people use their cars when they are leaving the neighborhood. WITHIN the neighborhood, they troll around in their golf carts. They seem to do this for an evening activity, sometimes with their dogs or their kids taking a ride. They then drive right up to their neighbors open garage bar, sit down and shoot the breeze. I find it hilarious.

Our neighborhood is a community within itself. People are out all hours of the night up to about midnight. It seems to be a very safe and friendly place.

my 3-mi. walks

July 12, 2009

I will miss my 3-mi. walks in the late evening, at this house. The walk goes to the end of a dead-end street. The smell of pines is heavenly. There are other fragrant flowers that look like white lilacs, along the way. We sometimes see deer. I saw 2 very large, soaring hawks the other night. They circled and landed among the telephone pole wires, then let out a piercing hawk call. It is just very peaceful, especially as the sun goes down, cicadas loudly singing. It takes me about 40 mins.

walking in South Carolina

June 30, 2009

Al and I have started taking a 3-mile walk every night, usually just before the sun goes down. We walk to the end of the road in front of our house, which ends in a dead end. Along the way this time of year, cicadas are making their loud calling, we see and hear different kinds of birds, and sometimes, something else happens.

Tonight I saw and heard movement in the thick woods on the side of the road. We walked on. On the way back, I saw an animal cross the road far ahead. It looked like either a large dog, or a small deer. Getting closer, we saw it again, peering out, about to cross the road. It was a small fawn. Just large enough not to be spotted. We were too far away to see it closely, but we saw it.

In today’s state newspaper, there was a story of a small black bear being spotted in someone’s back yard, in the county SOUTH of here. With all the forest and woods around us, I’m sure it could be in our back yard next time.

Beauty of South Carolina

June 17, 2009

The beauty of South Carolina is breath taking. It always strikes me as odd that this was one of the 1st colonies of the country, and yet it is nearly all undeveloped. Forests abound everywhere. It is a state of small towns, most of them having an ice cream place, a pizza parlor, and maybe a few others stores, plus all claiming a “historic downtown area”. Across the street from our house I have seen a group of 5 deer running together. Seeing a deer cross the road is now almost commonplace. I never saw a deer until about 5 years ago, but down here they are common.

The pines are everywhere. Driving from one town to another is to pass acres and acres of untouched pines and forest. Flowering trees start in Feb./March. There are now apples turning red on the trees in our front yard, and it is mid-June. At a farmer’s market we were told they would have corn starting next week! In Indiana we always had a saying for growing corn: “Knee-high by the 4th of July”. Here, it is done and grown and being sold by the end of June.

Water lily at Table Rock lake

June 17, 2009

all of us at Table Rock cabin

June 16, 2009

cabin photo